7 Months!

Hello! We're late again with this post - sorry! We've been busy bees over here since Kevin started school up again (his last semester!), and Maddie started going to PT once a week along with a new play group :)  I've decided that this is officially my favorite age for her (although I'm sure I'll say that again). She is just growing up and I am shocked to find that she is a real mini person now and not just a baby! Her personality is really shining through and we are loving it! 

 

Stats: *we didn't have a doctors appt this month so these measurements were done by me and could be a bit off*

17.8lbs (58th percentile), 26.5 inches (44th percentile). She has really been putting on the pounds these last few weeks! 

Clothes: Still in the 6month sizes but getting close to fitting in some 9monthers.

Sleep: So a week ago we decided to be brave to try out the crib transition! We were really scared that we would be up all night with her, and we have been a few nights, but overall she is starting to get it. The key is getting her to put herself back to sleep when she wakes up at night. Some nights she does great, others not so much but we're making progress so I have hope! 

Milestones in the works: She has officially mastered the tummy-to-back roll! Woohoo! Better late than never! She hasn't gotten back-to-tummy quite yet but that's pretty normal. She's been getting her feet up and rocking side to side so that's a good start! Her sitting skills are getting better and better and her language is nonstop these days! She seems to be really improving in all areas :) 

Favorite Activities: 

     - Chatting. She is just little miss social these days and loves babbling to people. She has finally learned some volume control so as long as you talk back, she'll just have a nice little convo with you. 

     - Jumping/being thrown in the air. All we do is say, 'BOING!' And jump her up in the air and she just shrieks with happiness! It's so much fun (and a great arm workout!). 

     - Her Bubba. He is a stuffed labradoodle that looks exactly like our dog, Hudson. We call Hudson 'bubba' all the time, so that is what her toy is named. She could really care less about most of her stuffed animals, but she is obsessed with this one! She snuggles and sleeps with him every night. It's soo cute! <3

     - Napkins- but only paper ones. She loves crinkling them and ripping them apart. It keeps her entertained all through dinners when we go out. We buy all these nice toys for her and she really just wants a napkin lol. 

     - The Sons of Anarchy theme song. Kevin and I binge watched all 6 seasons of this show in the last month so Maddie heard this song quite a bit. Every time it came on, she would crane her head around to see the tv and would listen so intently. She never cares about any other songs on the tv - just that one. So whenever she gets fussy in the car, I turn on that song and it's silent the rest of the trip. It's so funny! She just really loves it. Lucky for us we like the song too and it's not annoying haha. 

Least Favorite Activities:

     - Eating green beans. She really hates them. It's so hard to get them down but I keep trying because I'm convinced she will learn to like them! I've had to resort to dipping them in peaches occasionally though :/ 

Other than that, she doesn't really have any new dislikes. She is so mellow and happy all the time and we love it! Everytime we go out somewhere people always stop us to say how adorable/happy she is. I know we're a little biased, but it seems to be the consensus that she's the cutest baby there ever was. ;) 

6 Months!

This post is about two weeks overdue - but we've had a verrrrry busy two weeks with all the holidays, travelling and eight million doctors appointments! So I apologize. But we're here now, and had a wonderful first holiday season with our little elf! We went to Arizona for a few days to see my family and then spent Christmas and New Years back in California with Kevin's family. Maddie was QUITE spoiled by everyone! I'm going to need an extra room just to hold all her toys and clothes soon! :)  Also, in the past week, Maddie got an MRI, EEG and a Physical Therapy evaluation done! Busy busy! She really was SUCH a champ though with all these appointments! The MRI required sedation so we were a bit nervous about how she would handle it, but she woke up with a huge grin on her face and didn't miss a beat! She really just melts my heart. All of these tests are follow-ups being done by her neurologist to see how her brain is developing. The MRI is mostly for informational purposes, while the EEG (if all looks good) will determine if we can start weaning her off of some of her seizure meds (fingers crossed!). We don't have any results back yet, but we're not too worried. Since her rolling skills are a bit behind, and she has slightly low tone, she will also be starting PT once a week now. I'm actually really excited for this because I think it will be so good for her development and will help me learn new things to work on with her! Overall though, we are really SO happy with how she is doing and she just gets more fun every single day!

 

 

Stats: 16lbs (49th percentile), 25.75 inches (49th percentile) <-- so my length measurement from last month was a bit off hehe. But she is very proportional with her percentiles and is consistently growing chunkier so we're happy!

Clothes: She is in 6 month sizes now. Officially too big for the 3-6mos! She has grown a TON lately!

Sleep: She is actually sleeping great right now! Her nighttime sleep is getting more sound now, so that's great for me! She consistently sleeps about 9 hours a night and takes 4 shorter naps during the day.

Milestones in the works: Currently still working on rolling over - she has done a few rolls totally on her own in the past few weeks so that's huge! She is such a mellow baby, we find it hard to motivate her to roll a lot of the time...she's just content to hang out wherever she is. She is also getting really good at  sitting now as well! She is a total chatterbox and has been exploring new sounds recently - she'll be talking in no time! :)

Favorite Activities: 

     - Lip smacking - we always do a smacking noise to her when we give her her medicine to help her swallow it, so she has started to imitate us! She just started doing it one day and now does it every 5 minutes lol.

     - Laughing at daddy. She just thinks he is hilarious! He doesn't even have to do anything, or just makes the smallest noise and she is cracking up! It is soo adorable and I am totally jealous!

     - Using her pincher fingers. Particularly with her binky or burp rag. She picks it up with her two fingers and dangles it in front of her face like..'BEHOLD!' So funny :)

     - Eating 'real' food! Her new fave is peaches. She is doing so well with it! She opens her mouth wide and actually swallows most of it. She loves to watch us eat so she must have been taking notes ;)

     - Books! She's finally starting to really enjoy having her books read to her! Before, we could never really get through an entire book without her getting bored or distracted, but now she is starting to really be interested and will intently listen! It makes me so happy!

Least Favorite Activities:

     - Sitting in her car seat at night. When it's dark in the car, she just haaaates it! During the day, she is fine but at night, she has to have someone back there with her or a light on. 

     - Getting her snot sucked! Since winter has come and it's much drier out, it's been booger city over here! We have our trusty snot-sucker but oh my gosh, she HATES it!! It's really the only time she cries and boy does she scream!

I really cannot believe how easy of a baby Maddie is! She is just so mellow and content no matter what - she really is the best baby ever ;) Kevin and I always say that we are so lucky to have such a happy girl! Her huge smiles and big laughs just completely turn me into mush and I honestly can't believe how much I love her! She makes us all so happy <3

Perspective

I haven't really done a post about Madeline's health since the original one after her birth. I never know what to say. I have two different versions of my response to 'how's she doing?' - my overly positive, 'she's great! No problems!' response that I spit out to friends and family all the time, or my realistic 'we don't know and it's scary' response that I try to stifle. 

I have a hard time admitting my doubts and fears about Maddie's health because I don't want anyone to ever look at her differently. I don't want her pigeon-holed into the special needs box if she doesn't need to be. 

While her development is coming along wonderfully, it is still so scary to think about the future. As of right now, we have eight doctors and therapists who are working with us on making sure she is doing what she is supposed to be doing. Eight. It can be very overwhelming at times to keep track of all the different doctors and concerns, but I know it could be so much worse. 

She has been evaluated and we've found that she is perfectly on track for her age level in language and cognitive skills. This. Is. Huge! She is slightly behind in her motor skills but that is being worked on as well. I will definitely take cognition over motor skills anyday...(sad that that is even being said). 

It's so easy to get hung up on the things that she can't do or isn't doing. It's the majority of what the doctors talk about at her appointments and no one likes to hear that their child is 'behind'. 

Amidst all this, I have to remind myself to stop and think about what the doctors told us when we were in the NICU just learning of Madeline's condition. They basically told us they did not know if she would ever be able to do much of anything. There was talk of hospice and life expectancy. While I hate thinking about that time, it does me good to remember it and look at how far we have come. 

Going from this:

 To this: 

 Madeline has completely blown those predictions out of the water. I have to look at all the wonderful positive things she is doing now that they said she never would. I need to stop thinking of her in relation to the 'typical' 6 month old and look at her in regards to where we've come from. It's all about perspective and we are so happy with our little miracle baby and will continue to fight for the best life possible for her. <3

5 Months!

Madeline is 5 months old! I can't even believe it! Our baby girl is getting so grown up I don't know how it's happened so fast! I feel like in just the past few weeks, she has really made huge leaps developmentally and physically. She's growing so much and getting so strong! Her little personality is definitely making itself known and she is quite the feisty little one! We seriously love her more every single day - it's impossible not to! :)

Stats: 15lbs (42nd percentile), 26 inches (73rd percentile) <-- whaat?! I did this measurement myself so it very well could be a bit off, but baby girl is growing!!

Clothes: She is officially in the 3-6 month sizes now. Depending on the brand, some are still a little big (Baby Gap) but most fit well now! 

Sleep: She is still usually sleeping all through the night. Occasionally she starts stirring around 3am and I give her a bottle - I think she's in a growth spurt right now so I am trying to feed her more during the day to get her to sleep longer at night. Hopefully that helps! She really is cutting back on her daytime naps now too - keeping mama busy! 

Milestones in the works: Currently still working on rolling over - she's so close! She can do the final three-quarters of it if we get her started. She is also now able to sit on her own! She props herself up with her hands and if there is something interesting in front of her, she'll stay that way for a while! She gets better every day. It's amazing to see how strong she is getting! 

Favorite Activities: 

     - Standing. Still. She just loves it so much! Even if she's fussy or upset about something, if you stand her up she instantly perks up! Her doctor is very impressed with her leg strength :) 

     - Coughing. Not when she does it, but if anyone else coughs, she thinks it's hilarious! I swallowed some water wrong one day and was coughing, and she just laughed and laughed like I've never seen her do before. Haha 

     - Looking at herself in the mirror. She will look directly at her reflection, smile, and then shyly turn her head and nuzzle into my shoulder. Repeat x100. It's probably the cutest thing I've ever seen <3

     - Hudson! More specifically, Hudson's tail. She has finally started to really notice him and if he's in the room, no one else stands a chance at keeping her attention. She loves him! She is mesmerized by his wagging tail and if they make eye contact, she just shrieks with joy! I think he's in for it in a few months when she is more mobile!

Least Favorite Activities:

     - She still has the stranger danger going on with people other than Kevin and I. It takes her a while, but if she gets to watch you and check you out, she'll eventually warm up. 

     - Being held like a baby. She has to be held upright now. She always wants to see what's going on and look around. Standing and sitting up are the only acceptable positions :) 

We are so lucky to have such a happy girl! 

Baby Must-Haves 0-4 Months

I thought I would do a post about all the baby gear we've loved so far...so maybe for next time we'll try to keep ourselves from going overboard again (yeah righttt). I know a lot of this stuff really just depends on your baby, but I think it is a good general guideline to follow :) So, without further ado...

Baby/Registry Must Haves:

Nursery Works Sleepytime Rocker --I am obsessed with this rocker! Not only is it one of the most comfy and stylish ones I have seen, it also is very affordable too! I really hate the old lady look of the cheaper gliders out there do I have been really happy with this one. 

Babyletto Hudson Crib -- Obviously any crib will pretty much be the same...but I am very partial to this one! I love the modern look of it and it's also a little shorter than some so that's good for me. :) It converts as baby grows into a toddler and then full size bed. Quite reasonably priced also.
Motorola Video Baby Monitor--This one is pretty awesome! It seems like everyone complains about their baby monitors but we've really liked this one. The picture is so clear even in the dark. You can talk to your baby through it, which is handy, and it also shows you the temperature in the room.
Ikea Hemnes 8-Drawer Dresser -- We use this for both a dresser and a changing table...we just attached a changing pad to the top. It's big enough to still have space on the top for some things, and there is TONS of drawer space. Definitely essential when you can't stop yourself from buying way too much cute baby clothes ;)

Boon Lawn Drying Rack-- So handy with all those million bottle parts and pacifiers! I swear, I spend half my day washing bottles so this little drying rack gets plenty of use! Plus, it's freaking adorable! :)
Dr. Brown's Wide Neck Bottles --These are by far the best bottles we have tried! They have a unique vent system which prevents bubbles and we definitely noticed a difference in how gassy Maddie was after eating. They do have more parts which means more work with cleaning them, but I think they are worth it for sure! Don't bother with the 4oz ones either...just get the 8oz ones and you'll be able to use them for a long time!
Bumkins Prefold Diaper-- We use these for everything! Burp rags, bibs and any other mess that needs cleaning. Super absorbent and soft. We use these way more than any other more expensive bibs. 
Boppy -- Get one. Just do it. I can't even tell you how much we use this; it's absolutely mandatory. And of course get a cute cover or two :)
Munchkin Formula Dispenser-- For formula feeding moms, this thing is great! It's perfect for outings with your little one and small enough to not take up much room in the diaper bag. It comes with two parts - a single serving container and a four serving container. Very convenient. 

Baby Jogger City Mini GT Stroller --LOVE this stroller! The ride is so smooth that you can steer with just one hand. It is a dream to fold and unfold and it's lightweight enough to be able to easily take in and out of the car. Plus, there a lot of accessories that go with this stroller as well, (hello cup holder!) as well as car seat adapters for every major brand. Love love love!
Fisher-Price Cradle 'N Swing -- Kevin and I like to call this the 'Magic Poop Machine' haha. About nine times out of ten when we put Maddie in this, within 10 minutes, she poops. It's awesome. lol Definitely not it's intended use, but I'll take it! This came in very handy when Maddie was in that fussy phase around 6 weeks old. It helped to put her back to sleep in the middle of the night. It is big though and takes up a good amount of space. 
Lillebaby Complete Baby Carrier -- This was the baby carrier we decided on after hearing some really good reviews. I've really liked it so far! It's so easy to use and I really liked that you can use it on a baby as small as 7lbs. A lot of carriers like this cannot hold a baby that small without having to purchase an extra insert, and since Maddie was a little teeny thing for a while, this was just extra easy. I really prefer this type of carrier to the Moby style ones because it just feels more secure to me...but it's all about your preferences. 
Maxi Cosi Mico Carseat -- I researched a lot about carseats before choosing one and this brand came out on top for me. The reasons being that these carseats have significantly less toxic chemicals on their seats and harnesses, and they are also very lightweight and cool (temperature-wise). I also really like the look of them and they come in many different colors. 
4Moms MamaRoo -- We got this as a gift and it is awesome!! It works as a bouncer/swing combo which doesn't require you to be there bouncing it. You can also plug in your phone and play music...it's very cool.
Fisher Price Rock N Play Sleeper  -- I cannot even tell you how much of a lifesaver this was for us! Madeline slept and napped in this for the first 3 months and it was wonderful! I just put it right next to the bed and it made middle of the night feedings a little less miserable. Plus, it's super lightweight and is so easy to travel with/move around the house. 
Petunia Picklebottom City Carryall Diaper Bag -- OBSESSED with these diaper bags! Besides having a ridiculously adorable name, these bags are very functional. They have tons of room/pockets for all of your stuff, and a changing pad that folds out -- so cool! Plus, there are a billion different colors and patterns to choose from!

 

Aden + Anais Muslin Swaddle Blankets -- First off, yes, they are expensive for blankets. You can definitely find similar ones for half the price...but are they just as good? NO WAY. These little blankets are amazing for swaddling! They are plenty large so they will grow with your baby and they have just the perfect amount of stretch to get that tight burrito wrap. I really can't find anything close to as good as these. They are also very lightweight so baby isn't getting overheated when swaddled. 
Nosefrida Snotsucker -- The name always makes me laugh haha. But in all seriousness, this thing rocks. Those little bulb suckers they give you at the hospital are awful at getting anything out! Maddie has a pretty tiny nose so this little thing has been awesome! And it is definitely not as gross to use as it sounds!
The Baby Book-- ESSENTIAL FOR ALL NEW MOMS! Seriously...there were so many times that I was concerned about something but couldn't decide whether to call the nurse line or not. Out comes this baby and all is well. It has so much important information...basically an encyclopedia of babies. Great buy!
Halo SleepSack Swaddle Blanket-- Another lifesaver! Around 4 months, Maddie decided she was too big to be fully swaddled anymore. However, she isn't quite ready to have both her arms out at night (they go flailing and wake her up haha). This is awesome because you can swaddle both arms or just one or none at all! And she can have the freedom to stretch her legs out. This baby got us sleeping 9 straight hours a night so needless to say, it's worth buying!
Triple Paste-- Maddie got a pretty bad diaper rash when she was just a few weeks old and NOTHING else worked for us! We tried lots of other creams, but then within one day of using this stuff, it was already noticeably better. It is a bit more pricey, but a little goes a long way and it really works! 
BabyGanics Hand Sanitizer  -- We have at least three bottles of this around the house at all times. It's gentle on your skin, smells great, and is awesome for visitors wanting to hold a new baby (or after diaper changes). :)  
Fisher-Price Musical Gym  -- Maddie loves this thing! Since the first day we laid her on this, she was just mesmerized! Even to this day, she will happily entertain herself under here for hours if we let her. We hang toys from the links and she loves the mobile that spins, lights up and plays music. This has been a huge help when I need to make dinner and she won't nap :) 
Jacques the Peacock -- This is BY FAR Maddie's favorite toy! She just lights up the second she sees it. It has so many fun things to look at and touch on both sides. We've been playing with this toy for about 6 weeks now and she still loves it just as much as the first day.
Aveeno Baby Wash & Shampoo -- With so many different brands of baby wash out there, it was pretty overwhelming to find one I thought would be best. I have pretty sensitive skin and Aveeno has always done well by me so I leaned towards this one. It is very sensitive, doesn't have a strong smell, and doesn't have tons of weird chemicals. We also use their baby lotion and really like it! 

So there you have it...all our favorite baby stuff thus far on our journey of parenthood! We're definitely going to need a bigger house at this rate ;)